10 Finding help at home

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If you can't manage tasks like washing, dressing and feeding yourself, contact social services. They are listed in the phone book under the name of your council. They can provide home carers and other support. Depending on your income and any assets you have, many local councils will expect you to make a contribution towards the cost of your care at home.  But don't let this put you off asking in the first place. 

What to do next

Make a list of your difficulties and needs, being as specific as possible:

  • I need help to shower
  • I'm struggling to dress myself
  • I can no longer cook for myself safely.

Then phone social services and ask for a FREE commuity care needs assessment.  A professional will come to your home and assess what help you need.  It's important you are clear with them about the difficulties you have - don't 'gloss over' them!

Even if you plan to arrange and pay for care independently, get an assessment.  The social worker may have solutions you hadn't thought of, plus good local contacts.

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If you're entitled to care from social services

Some people find the home carers provided by the hospital and social services excellent. Others end up never seeing the same person twice, carers arriving late or people they don't like. You can choose a personal budget instead. Social services tells you how much money you can have to meet your assessed needs, and you spend your personal budget on carers you choose yourself.

Another option is to top up the care social services provides free with some private care.

Personal budgets and direct payments - what's the difference?

Direct payments are the forerunner to personal budgets. The difference is that direct payments are more restrictive - you're given the money (in cash) but you can only use it to employ a carer or buy in the care you are assessed for.

Personal budgets are more flexible - you can decide what to spend the budget on (social services normally holds the money for you) as long as it meets your assessed needs. You can still take the money and become an employer or you can also ask your council to manage the money and carers for you. There are other options too so it can be confusing so it's best to get in touch with social services to find out more.

What's the advantage of personal budgets and direct payments?

Choice. You get to choose your care or carer to suit your needs. If you employ someone, you can dismiss the person if it doesn't work out. You fix the hours and terms.

How to find good carers

Contact independent living schemes. They're run by disabled people for disabled people and tend to know reliable local people including support brokers*. Disability Rights UK (0845 026 4748, disabilityrightsuk.org), can give you details of independent living schemes in your area.

* A support broker helps you make the most of your budget. Find one by contacting the National Brokerage Network (01223 883149, nationalbrokeragenetwork.org.uk). Or contact Counsel and Care, (0845 300 7585, counselandcare.org.uk) for advice.

Did you know….Just as you can use a travel agent to find you the best holiday, so you can use a support broker to seek out the best carer for you.

If you employ help yourself, rather than accepting what's offered, there's paperwork such as public liability insurance, pay as you earn (PAYE) and National Insurance (NI). You can ask someone else to do it such as:

  • your broker
  • a trusted friend or relative who has Enduring Power of Attorney
  • social services
  • a direct payment support service. Ask an independent living scheme (see above) or your council for recommendations. The National Centre for Independent Living, (see above) can also advise.

Did you know…you are usually not allowed to employ a relative as your carer unless they live at a different address. In exceptional circumstances - language difficulties or where only a family member can perform the caring role - you may use direct payments or personal budgets to employ a relative. But the relationship between you and them must be set down in a formal contract.

Paying for care in your home

When the social worker comes to assess your care needs, they should offer you a separate financial needs assessment. They will decide whether the council will pay for some or all of your care, or whether you will need to pay for it all yourself.  Whatever the decision, remember that you can claim Attendance Allowance however much money you have.  You can then use it to pay for care, though it probably won't cover everything.

Different conditions apply in Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland; Counsel and Care (0845 300 7585, counselandcare.org.uk) can advise on this.

Useful contacts

Wales:  Disability Wales (029 2088 7325, disabilitywales.org/independent-living/direct-payments)

Scotland: Update, Scotland's disability information service, (0131 669 1600, update.org.uk).
Scottish Helpline for Older People (SHOP) 0845 125 9732
Care Information Scotland, (08456 001 001, careinfoscotland.co.uk)

Northern Ireland: the Centre for Individual Living, Belfast (02890 648546, cilbelfast.org) will tell you about independent living centres in your area. 

Do you need someone to sleep at your home overnight?

Your local primary care trust (PCT) or social services can usually provide night carers only if you need pain-relieving care because you are terminally ill. If your safety is at risk because of dementia, contact the Alzheimer's Society for advice (0845 300 0336, alzheimers.org.uk). Overnight care can be expensive but if you need it, ask your support broker or care manager to help you plan how to pay for it.

Do you need special equipment to stay in your home?

A powered bath seat, stair lift or grab rail? Ask social services to send an occupational therapist to assess your needs and work out how your home can be adapted.

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